Issyouni

What is it that makes people able to stay together happily ever after? One might think it's understanding or love or care, some might probably say it's chemistry.

It's not understanding or love, or finding the right person or how much the mate cares. Wonder why?

=> understanding
People can stand others, but to some extent before they blow up. How long are you going to understand people's way that you hate?

=> love or care
how long can love or care last? It is the oxytocin hormone that generate love, makes man and woman bonds together and the maximum limit it can last in human within a relationship is 2-3 years. What y'all gonna do after that? Break up? Changing partner? Flirt around?

The magic spell depends on how better we avoid misunderstanding, creating the right relationship and care TILL the end; that makes a fairy tales end happily ever after. Love, understanding, care, mr right, all these factors doesn't really contribute to the type of love that you expect. It's the magic spells that make peoples stay together no matter as friends, neighbors or mates. That's why some dumps the other when they feel that the other person does not really understand them. That's why people's change when they still the same person in frame. 

I think that's really stupid of them. If u can no more see understanding in others, why don't you avoid misunderstanding? If not, you only making things worse. How stupid can a stupid be?

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Uma baru…

Phew…arini start dok uma sewa…pg td checkout asrama. Rumah ni x de la ok sgt, tp ok la dr dok panjat tingkat 5 ari2…nk turun pon malas…cheh, mcm la dok uma sewa rajin nk kua…huhu…ok la, xde la takot nk g toilet lg….n xde la bebalek blackout je. Nyakitkan ati. Sewa pon lg murah dr dok asrama. at least ley msak, ada dapo…td da bli kuali…brg msk je lom ada lg…xsabar nk msk..nk cri mkn pon snang kot sni. Pling terok pon ada kfc n mcd….toilet dia, xla ok sgt, but guess I can bear with it..

ah….pnatnyeee…nk tdo xley lelap lak..ptg kang nk kna kuar awal, nk tuang myak dlu…moto da sampai. Abg cayang post..mnggu lepas sampai. Siap basuh sampai kilat lg..huhu..tp ni moto da koto…kene taik burung kat asrama. Yucky, ni yg xsuka nk basoh. period first day lak rini…mlm tdo mti xsdar pe nye. Bestnye lau dpt g urut kaki…msti sedap tdo.

Tp pose da nk dkat, xley la urut…thn ni 1^st time pose dlm keadaan ada gastrik. Sbln la mkn ubat gamaknye. I hate meds. Maths pon. Wakakaka…

Test da nk dkat…bru study 1 chapter je utk 1^st subjek. Camne nih..sempat ke nk stdy suma..wua..bebudak group suma dpt cari dataset utk klas rini..aku dpt gak, tp xbape ok…aih…susah tol xde tenet ni. Da la aku ni jenis cari mmg xjmpa…xsabonye nk bli broadband..printer dah bli. rm 175 brand HP...3 in 1. ley scan, ley print n ley potostat. credits to paeza...this is the first time in my life, ada printer yang dibeli ngan titik peluh sendiri....another asset besides my motorcycle..

Xsabar nk blik pt raja…takat ni ok la, xde msalah jauh ngan dia…life goes on n progress ktorang pon cam biasa. The secret recipe? Hurm..i would say that it’s patience plus understanding. Ex: pmpuan biasa msti nk melenting lau pape xkene especially during pms. Even usually bende camtu mmg akan wat kta melenting, ngan dia, kene pk la sblm btindak. First…tnya dengan jelas n bek cam sumanya ok. Then bru decide ptut melenting ke, majuk ke or take pape action len. Pas da decide, pk steps utk wat suma tu INCLUDING the consequences. Then, tada…settle dengan aman…Trust? Not as important as those two’s. Why? Coz it doesn’t matter n really effects these 2 factors. Lau caye fully pon xguna lau xley sabar, xley paham, xley tolak ansur…n it takes times to practice these..Psoalannye, msti ke dua2 org dlm relationship tu kna practice suma ni. Tet….not necessarily. Sorang da ckup utk bwak changes dlm satu2 hubungan…tp lau dua2 dpt wat, ok gak. Tp seems quite impossible coz dlm satu2 hub, msti ada pihak yg lbey dominan..that’s it tips for today…

Rndunye kat tan…tp dia cam da mati je…bla nk blik mlk jmpa si kecik ni…

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Ima koko ni~

Last Friday, cupcake sampai kat uma. Yg order o9 ritu. Tukang wat kek nye da upload kat blog dia.. http://cuppacakeblicious.blogspot.com/2010/03/rukia-ichigo.html. Siap ada wish card lg tu..


Ni cupcake nye, cantik x? Total price including deliver, rm120....mmg cupcake nye sedap sgt...Tp sdey...sbb love nye yg pacak2 tu tumbang..sbb whether pnas msa delivery tuh...Time smayang jumaat...gomen kan rehat lame jumaat...




And this is my current bedrooom...Been sleeping with books...There's just so many to be read.. Smlm, g bp mall n mcd..Lame gila xmkn mcd. Tp malangnye...mcd smlm xsdap...Hampanye rasa ati... Start arini, sbln xde air...Bekalan ada, cuma 12 jam je, 10pg sampai 10mlm...Last Friday gak, jmpa dekan..Dia arahkan wat master kat usm so that ley abis cpat. I understand that she only wants the best for me. and it is the best. If this's what HE has in store for me, then I'll take it. Maybe it's better to be apart from everyone n leave everything behind.

Td tjumpa quotes dr Mother Theresa, dia ckp,

"If you cannot love the person whom you see in front of you, how can you love God whom you cannot see"

and...

"If you start judging people you will be having no time to love them"

I'm fully agreed with the quotes. Sbb bla kta dok pertikaikan kekurangan dlm apa yg kta terima, we'll start seeing cracks in the relationship, which eventually leads to fights, problem, etc..and kalau kta xmampu bertahan diuji melalui org yg kta sayang, camne kta nk sayang DIA yg kta xnmpak, yg mmg turunkan kta kat muka bumi ni utk diuji? camne kta nk tahan dgn ujian dia lau ujian dr org dpan mata pun kta xley nk tahan..Being with him byk mengajar aku erti hidup bsama, not only for me, but for both of us. Love alone xckup utk hidup bsama. Slama ni, dgn yg lpas, hurm, pd aku skang, hanya cinta monyet. Sbb hanya pk nk bsama, hnya pk syg, hnya nk happy. Hakikatnye, byk yg plu ada utk hidup bsama. Love, understanding, planning, backup, ilmu rumahtangga, ilmu komunikasi, byk lg. It takes a lot to accepts a person as a whole, as he is, and adapt...

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